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'' Unresolved Trauma " Abandonment

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 Hello Kings, and Queens. How are you? I pray all is well with you. Today is a good day for me I will rate myself an 8 out of 10. How will you rate yourself? Please feel free to leave a comment I would like to know. Trust me it is okay not to be okay we all have our moments. In last week's blog post, I was speaking about my unresolved trauma of anger. Today I will be talking about unresolved trauma abandonment issues. This is part 2 of my blogging series about my life, and unresolved trauma that I didn't deal with, and ran away from the majority of my life since childhood. Emotional abandonment is a subjective emotional state in which people feel undesired, left behind, insecure, or discarded. When my mom left this earth from cancer my world was turned upside down. I didn't feel love, and I didn't feel worthy even though it wasn't her fault it was just her time to go. With me experiencing that as a child the seed of abandonment grew inside of me. Over time not talki...

" Unresolved Trauma " Anger

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 Happy Saturday Kings, and Queens. How are you doing today? I hope all is well with you. Today has been a great day for me so far. I have been working on a couple of things like my website, and later on today I am going to work on another chapter for my book. The Holy Spirit has placed it on my heart to talk about unresolved trauma. I know every one of us as a whole has unresolved trauma. Some of us are scared to talk about it. Few of us are running away from it because we don't want to sit down and dwell on it for too long. The majority of us know we have trauma and are scared to actually deal with it. Trust me I am not perfect at all so I will be sharing my story with you. I pray that it will inspire you and magnify you. Unresolved trauma is an active and usually disruptive emotional response to a terrible event or experience that the person tries to forget and suppress instead of processing. To others, you seem fine, but in reality, you are stuck in the past, battling emotional ...

" Placemaking

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 Happy Saturday Kings, and Queens. How are you doing today? I pray all is well with you. I am having a good day so far. I made some good breakfast while playing my worship music simultaneously. It has been placed on my heart to discuss placemaking. Place-making means creating places and focusing on transforming public spaces to strengthen the connections between people, and these places. Place-making is a process centered on people, and their needs, aspirations, desires, and visions, which relies strongly on community participation. Holding space is making space for somebody else's experience and centering them. To hold space, one must be fully present and create a safe environment. Holding space refers to the act of being fully present with someone else, without judgment or distraction, so that the person can share their experiences and perspective. Engaging in attentive listening and offering nonjudgmental support. I am going to share the different experiences I have encountered ...

" Chosen Princess

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Welcome Kings, Queens, and everyone. How is everyone's Saturday going so far? It is a glorious day. I pray all is well with you if not I am always here for you. It was a good day for me I woke up read the daily devotional, meditated, played some worship music, and had a good breakfast. I still have some curve balls trying to come my way. I am not going to let those curve balls still my happiness. I am going to share a quote that I found online I pray that it will encourage you as much as it did me. Whatever life throws at you, even if it hurts you, just be strong and fight through it. Remember, strong walls shake but never collapse. For today's blog post, I am going to be discussing how God has chosen me and discovered the identity of a chosen princess. As you all know when I finish my post for, the day I end it with the chosen princess, it is the same with my notes, and gratitude journal as well. In my previous blog post, I talked about not having a close relationship with my ...